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Showing posts with label Child Safety. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Child Safety. Show all posts

Friday, December 10, 2010

~Concrete Angel~


~The other night I changed my profile photo to depict a cartoon from days gone by. I also chose to take it one step further and challenge you to do the same. Make the call to help----I have, and will continue to do so. I have to admit that I have hesitated as I've seen things get worse following an investigation. Children are warned to be silent---or else! So unfair. The abusers get sneakier.
Let's ALL put our voices together and tell our government that we need them to increase funding to Protection Agencies so they are able to afford to do their jobs! 
School teachers need to step outside their comfort zone and make the calls based on their suspicions due to negative behaviours of students in their classrooms and school yards. 

Families that appear "well to do" can be abusers too.  How many of us know couples and families that appear cordial and loving in public, but know that behind closed doors is another story entirely?? 

A big home, nice yard, and loads of toys don't mean a damn thing----and are often gifts meant to "silence" the victims. 

This is such a frustrating topic, especially since the death of 2 of my own children. I see loving couples that would make excellent parents and they struggle with infertility and loss of their own----while other families have children that they just can't seem to love and comfort the way any child deserves. 

My thoughts and prayers are with the innocent victims. 

I pray that you all have strength and courage to make yourselves heard. I know it's not easy, but the moment you hang up that phone, I can tell you there's some relief knowing you did the RIGHT thing.
 ~Take a stand. Help our children have a voice bigger than they are ♥ 
Sometimes it's difficult for when we try to help we can end up being victims of harassment ourselves----but I'm an adult and I can take it. 
Nothing compares to the harassment that too many children face from the people that are supposed to love them the most----their Mothers, Fathers, family members. 
Open your heart. Be brave. Make the call. 

Sunday, December 5, 2010

CHILD ABUSE AWARENESS CARTOON CAMPAIGN

~My 2 cents. Part of Child Abuse Awareness is that parents need to take responsibility for the content that their children access on the internet. 

 Facebook is not for children. My sons don't have email or fb accounts......but they've been taught not to talk to strangers, go places alone, or interact with anyone unknown online that wants to engage with them.

~The computer is located in our main living space where they can be observed at all times, and I check the history and cookies to be sure they aren't seeing nasty porn or graphic content. I have installed programs to keep pop-ups and scripts from running.

Parents....do your job and your children have a better chance of being safe. I'd worry more about who they come in contact with while they're running around town, hanging around the town docks with tourists on boats, or hanging out at the beach, half dressed, with strangers all around.

People worry about someone stealing their child's photo. Well, uhm.....have you considered that everyone and their dog owns a digital cam or phone that takes pics and pedophiles can hang out in public places and take your child's photo while standing mere feet away from you!

You worry about your address and phone numbers.....but did you not realize that 411 makes all that info public and it has nothing to do with facebook security or spyware/malware or pedophiles ????

Mass hysteria......just what we need for the holidays.

I don't know about you, but I think this has been a huge success despite the negative attention given as we come to the end of the requested awareness project.

Everybody's talking----and there's strength in numbers.

Stress less about what is happening in your home,  under your nose---and worry about whether they know how to keep themselves protected.  Educate your children, check out websites to keep your children safe online and in your community.

http://www.protectchildren.ca/app/en/

http://www.thedoorthatsnotlocked.ca/app/en/ 

Happy Holidays everyone!